Scattering ashes is an intimate gesture of love and remembrance. Whether you lean on a short quote, a favorite poem, a simple prayer, or your own words, this guide is here to spark ideas for a farewell that feels right.
What To Say At An Interment of Ashes
A gentle guide for finding your words
Letting go of a loved one’s ashes can stir up all kinds of emotions—sadness, relief, gratitude. You may feel like sharing a few sentences, or simply holding a quiet moment of silence. Either way, having a line or two at the ready can ease that knot in your throat. Below are thirteen ideas—mix, match, or riff on them however you like.
1–4: Scattering Ashes Quotes That Say It Best
- “May you touch dragonflies and stars, dance with fairies, and talk to the moon.” —Leny Hollie
- “You may be gone from my sight, but you are never gone from my heart.” —Luther F. Beecher
- “Only a moment you stayed, but what an imprint your footprints have left on our hearts.” —Dorothy Ferguson
- “The song is ended, but the melody lingers on.” —Irving Berlin
5–8: Scattering Ashes Poems to Read with Others
- Mary Oliver, When I’m Among the Trees
“When I am among the trees… they give off such hints of gladness.” - Alex MacLean, Those We Love
“Those we love don’t go away; they walk beside us every day.” - Anonymous, May Time Soften Your Pain
“May time soften the pain until all that remains is the warmth of the memories.” - Rabindranath Tagore, Peace, My Heart
“Let love melt into memory and pain into songs.”
9–11: Scattering Ashes Prayers & Blessings
- Irish Blessing
“May the road rise up to meet you… and until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand.” - Catholic Prayer for the Dead
“In your hands, O Lord, we humbly entrust our brothers and sisters… welcome them into paradise.” - Apache Blessing
“May the breeze blow new strength into your being… keeping your loved one with you always.”
12–13: Your Own Words to Say at An Interment of Ashes
- Share a Memory
“I’ll never forget our Sunday morning talks—your laughter was my favorite song.” - Apache Blessing
“You were my rock, my laughter, my home. I love you always and will miss you every day.”
A Final Thought
There really isn’t a “right” script—sometimes silence says more than words ever could. If you’d like more inspiration or help planning a nature-inspired ceremony, Better Place offers carbon-neutral cremation services and eco-friendly memorial options in nature.
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